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polyfakery

 

i have met many people capable of much love

and you are not one of them

 

your brand of love has only one name on it

yours

 

it is love as defined by a toddler

it is getting what you want

when you want it

how you want it to look

 

and really, it is not love at all

 

i have met many people who have contributed true beauty to their relationships

and you

are not one of them

 

your brand of beauty is using and watching

being allowed to be far away from the truth

about the fear that drives you to run away from closeness

 

and the rage you exhibit is not proof of your belonging

it is evidence of the separation you choose to live by

and the rights you cry for are not rights at all

really you cry for the bond that was broken before you could speak

and the belief that covering it up is more logical than recovering it

 

i have met many people worthy of carrying a flag to authentically represent a cause

and you

are not

one of them

 

 

by Luca Rossi Martin

the aerie (part 1)

listen here: the aerie (part 1)

 

when a predatory bird

such as

a hawk

an eagle

or a jerkboy

invites you into its nest to have a good time

it surely doesn’t know itself and its true nature

and sooner or later

you’ll be ripped to shreds

 

therefore

as tempting as it may be

and as innocent as it may seem

politely decline

 

Made of broken glass and more: Susan Taylor Glasgow’s “The Communal Nest.”

 

 

if you shake it for too long

listen here: if you shake it for too long

 

a disgusting sense of nation

a lurid blurry empty opening 

 

inside you find

a disintegrating pearl

men like vinegar and boiling water

cheap scientific tricks for exhibiting the end

pulverized playgrounds where no questions are ever asked

an explicitly gruesome lean over the keys

 

and desperately honest word phrases that Shakespeare didn’t invent

that have heavy song syllable sounds and short vivid vowel spikes

 

because nobody looks out their blazing windows anymore

except to stare at the media dream across the street

 

don’t stand out

more than twice in less than one month, we shut everybody up

and they stayed put

 

hiding under glass bottles

shaking

turning themselves

into butter

 

Jim Victor’s butter sculpture 

the way our (horrible) life used to be

you kissing me on the neck, at the kitchen sink, while doing dishes

cuddling on the couch, watching stupid shows, gasping, grabbing you when i was scared

us sitting on the porch, eating dinner or talking about the day, talking about our (horrible) life together

riding bicycles, to buy helmets, to lose breath, in the woods, on a lunchbreak, niagara falls

sunday mornings, just you and i, in (horrible) love again

saturday mornings, walking , to the bank, long motorcycle ass sore, bagels

friends in the guest room, mattresses on the floor in the livingroom, saturday afternoon surprises

(horrible) post show love, messy brushing teeth together

fish tank, our eel, you collecting rocks, laura

sunsets from the eye of the golden eagle, paths worn, (horrible) plans spoken

our (horrible) friendship and support of each other through life’s challenges, holding hands while driving

telling me your dreams in the (horrible) mornings sleepy together

making (horrible) horrible music together, bath tub readiness, shower singing

our bird feeder, jubilant visiting birdies, chickadee, the neighbor bird shit complaints

moes cabins, montreal, quebec city, (that horrible trip to) philly, (that especially last horrible time in) manhattan and brooklyn, toronto, (horrible horrible) NH, kansas city, kansas city

you bringing me chocolate, you buying me plants, you wrapping your (horrible) arms and legs around my (horrible) body

your horrible secrets, my horrible delusion that we were meant for (horrible) long-term evolving enjoyment

Resistance

This post was first an email response to dance artist Alia Thabit’s Love Note of 4/28/2013 on How To Beat Resistance

 “Resistance is the secret to joy!”- Alice Walker

At one point in my life, I was a scholarship student in the Jacob’s Pillow Choreography Lab/Leading Communities to Dance program. (After having been a scholarship student 6 years before in the Jazz Traditions program.) For this program though, I was contaced by the Education Director to take part in it. She thought it was a good fit for me and me for it.

So there I was in this dreamy program of dancemakers, not just dance phrasers, but people who work with multitudes of diverse communities with dancers and non-dancers making change in people’s lives through dance. We are choreographers who know the true and deep power of dance making beyond the stage. There we were. A motley crew from many backgrounds being brought into these new processes in our dance making….being asked to think about this and that and try that and this and challenge ourselves and know ourselves and our communities deeper. 

And what was Stefanie doing?

Resisting. As usual. 

I wasn’t aware of it yet, but was disturbed by this common force in me that I cannot seem to always control. And it was visible to others that I was resisting too. Or at least it felt like it was. And I didn’t care really, but it did isolate me a bit. A few more days in, I was in the studio alone with these new processes to work with, and I worked hard for hours to find what was happening. Literally bumping into myself over and over again. And there was the answer that was so obvious: I was resisting. Then I began to feel very badly about myself and doubted my place in the program. (I did that at the Pillow that last time I was there too.  I wasn’t a good enough Jazz dancer, not “company” material, I didn’t agree with the teachers, I didn’t agree with some of the techniques, yadda yadda yadda. I even told one of the teaching artists that what he said was bullshit and sat down during his class. Still, they asked me to come back. I guess I belonged on the other side of the dance…the making side.) So, again here I was…fighting…but this time I was really fighting myself. And as a female artist and just plain old human, I find myself doing this a lot. I won’t go in to the psychological whys of it though there are many that make lots of sense.

In the program, I began to become deeply troubled and obsessed by my resistance. How was I going to stay in this program? As a scholarship student especially?! I couldn’t go along with everything without a fight first and I couldn’t pretend? Then the Alice Walker quote appeared to me. By mistake. I don’t even remember how it came up. It was just there.

“Resistance is the secret to joy!”

And so, now I had something to work with.

I began with that quote, and those became the words that made the next series of dance phrases in my labs. When I announced it in our next group session, the artist leading our program smiled hugely. She literally beamed. It seemed like all along she knew. And here I had found my own way. It was momentous. I was provided a time and space with an experienced mentor to discover some aspect of myself that would become invaluable to my life as an artist.

It was what is called a breakthrough

I found out something about my process in those weeks. And it hasn’t ever let me down. I resist. And my resistance is my process. It is my power. My choice. Sometimes, it is all that I have to start with. All that I have to hold onto. Sometimes it is the only thing that keeps me going especially when in a society that so devalues and misunderstands the rank that dance and movement deserves.

 I won’t ever give it up.

Thank you Alia for reminding me of it’s value.

And thank you to those that support the precious time and space needed for us to find these pearls within ourselves. These are the pearls we can share with the world when it is in need and which allows us to make our dances from a place of struggle that can speak truth to power.

Love,

Stefanie

 

 

the newest her

and not long after

she squeezed that thing out

she cleaned up all her edges really nice

tied a shiny satin ribbon around her neck

and found herself a new piece of metalman to roll around town on

 

she put her before and after name on all the right lists with all the best tags

drank just enough of this and smoked just enough of that

widened her square

and loosened her definition of a pair

and wouldn’t you know it

that cocky jawbone heart ripper slid in

 

yes, with a neck bone stuck out from his jaw when he danced

and a glass wine bottle crutch holding up his flaw

 

she never had a chance

 

but there is honor among thieves

a mixing of hypothesis and prophecy

where people like her and him corrupt the once pure process of being

in love

where it is agreed

that all digital

no print

no content

is enough of

equality

 

in a black lit room of a dickhead mind

new boots

white piping outlining where her curves end

and where her pride begins

in this man she can show herself off to in 4 beats or less

this man who is learning to sleep

sleep

sleep

in

and drown out

the rest 

 

stalling out, taking off

listen here: Stalling out, Taking off

 

i think about all those times we would ride

my pubic bone pressed to your sacrum

the electricity of my hands on your wings

i wanted you to fly

but you’d rather limp

 

 

draw the line off my chest

forensics did a better job at closure than you

they found DNA from your ancestors’ ancestors

that revealed more reasons for why you are the way you are: lame

 

again, science did the job for you

pointed out all your weaknesses and the whys

 

you didn’t have to be accountable for your actions

all you had to say was that              you have the right

the freedom to choose to shut off someone else’s freedom to speak

to you

 

it’s empirical data on your side, fighting for your limitations

mutations, permeations, and fluctuations in personality misorder

it’s all there

 

then they draw the line off my chest

and add up the number of times

given, gave, received, deceived, conceived

and there you have it

the answer is quite clear

Reinfected

Everyday this month, I was going to write and publish a post. I had something to say, something that needed to come out of me. I wasn’t always sure what it was going to be. But I knew it had to happen. Everyday.

Then something happened. Again. A storm. A tornado. I felt it coming. I knew I was entering into some kind of territory that is dangerous and a set-up for it to occur. And yet, I walked on.

I have walked through storms before. There is a smell. There is a thickness to air. There is a push against the wall of the stomach that makes you want to stick your head out the window and spit. You can feel the lift in the sky, the drop in the ground. Or is it the drop in the sky and the life in the ground? There is something pushing the up and down either further apart or closer together. It’s hard to say which but if you have any tendency within at all towards sensing barometery you’d know what I mean. The pressure is pulling and pushing the tissue holding your bones. Are you flexible, movable? Are you compressing, closing in? The blood drip shoots through your little tunnels with a marked squeeze to it. If you hold your ear to it, it sounds like one tiny high note consistently escaping through a fluid ballon held under immense depths of water. And the oxygen is not absorbed quite the same through your sifting parts. It builds. And every time it’s hard to say what will really happen. It could be light, it just be a passing mist, or it could be a downpour, a strong release and then relief to the clouds and your head. It could be something worse, it could always be something worse. It could blow things down and apart and across towns.

That is what could have happened. That could be how I left my words in my body and moved them out instead through my foot. Kicked at the air. Or through my neck, rolling my head to meet the swinging wind. Through my shoulders and my ribs. Isolating gently at first and then wildly.  My body could have been a small obstacle in the storm. Trying to knock me over or sneak past. For bodies like mine, it isn’t that easy. Something in me is left fighting to survive the storm, let is pass through me. Experience it. Live to tell.

And It could have been the eye of the storm that was in my belly while we were at dinner in that wretched town the other night, so calmly our small group convened. Drank little, ate even less. We must conserve. Even digesting takes too much energy sometimes.  Because a little later the storm would be on it’s way out. And we know that is when the real damage occurs. It’s always harder to get out than in. Ask any thief.

Or midwife.

But there is another possibility. Overexposure. Like iron metal to oxygen. In a way the metal is merely letting you know what’s coming. Like a freshwater mussel to PCBs. Like that canary in that coal mine. Or the presence of tubificid worms showing up only in places where the sewage has seeped out. They let us know what kind of shit is possibly on it’s way into our systems.

And then there is The Lynx. What happened to the lynx? The heavily debated lynx. The once abundant and necessary predatory mammal has become the indicator species of the forest by its increasingly low sitings. Where there are lynx there is clean water and a healthy population of native boreal forest inhabitants.

True or False: In the habitats where a lynx is thriving, there is an indication that its environment is healthy, balanced and supported.

True.

In order to be a thriving lynx, the surrounding environment must be just the right fit. Otherwise the animal suffers. It over competes. It is forced to cross borders.

It’s not ALL about the lynx though being provided for. The lynx also provides.  Though it cannot ‘peacefully’ maintain balance -and no animal can- when it is forced outside of its natural habitat by the introduction of invasive others whether those strangers be animal, vegetable, mineral or chemical. This introduction often becomes aggressive in its exposure if the porridge is just right for the visitor. Some may argue that it’s survival of the fittest at work here. But I think we can come up with a more intelligent investigation. And anyways, in this case of habitats polluted by humans, it doesn’t make the same kind of sense. Otherwise humans are all that will be left and soon after, they won’t be either. Because we don’t live independently. None of us is self-made. There is always an interdependence engine motoring away in the background . Existence as IS only appears in the presence of OTHER. We all depend on one another not only in order to maintain health and balance…but merely to exist. It works the same the other way too: causing pain to one is causing pain to many. Sometimes it really is avoidable.

Like, duh.

When a creature is overloaded with the overexposure of a contaminant in its sensitive environment (and truly all environments of nature are sensitive as a whole) then not only does that creature suffer, all creatures do.

I am obviously talking about compassion here, not the food chain. And the contaminant here is ignorance, abuse, addiction, neglect, avoidance, and greed. In the presence of many of these contaminants, many will suffer often un-needlessly. None of this is new or exciting information.

Remember: sometimes the contaminant is the abuser. That abuser could be you. 

And compassion is that form of love that human creatures are wired to give and receive, unless they don’t know how. In which case they must learn. Unless they choose not to. And as we can see, many do.

(By they way, science has found many other living creatures wired for it as well. Compassion. But that is another topic.)

What kind of creature are you?

Maybe it was not just a storm passing through. Maybe I was also over exposed to an invasive toxic element in my environment on Saturday night because when I awoke on Sunday morning, I couldn’t breathe very well at all. The congestion had started almost immediately after the exposure but I was numbed by it all and didn’t notice. Now 3 days later, the congestion moves from my head to my lungs and closer to my heart. With it erupts deep rotting sorrow, memories of loss, abuse and abandonment, awareness of mistakes made, self-hatred, existential fears, righteous and painful rage, and a general disinterest in going on in life. See, the exposure is not only physical in the symptoms it brings forth, it is emotional and mental too. A complete infection of the system.

Or rather in this case, a reinfection.

There is always the option to consider…as someone said to me…that maybe I just don’t want to thrive. For those who live their life according to nothing but the driving need to scratch every itch in their sleepy selfish subconscious, then the option to believe that would be an accurate one to choose.  Because unlike them, I don’t have any interest in being well-adjusted to a sick society. Nor do I have any interest in perpetuating that sickness.

So for now, I’ll just buy another box of tissues, keep blowing my nose and swallowing my bitter herbs until my immune system is strong enough again to make it through to the next fight. And I’ll do my best to keep wringing it out, writing it out. Everyday.